hey newbie here!.....i used to smoke and weigh ahuge amount and realised headin for 30 this wasnt good.. so i gave up the smokes and ayr later decided to lose weight. since february this year i have lost over 98lbs or 7stone.you,d think i,d feel fantastic huh??? no so......i used to be, when fatter this confident outgoing bubbly free spirited kinda girl...lost all the weight..now i,m an introvert..dont go out, dont socilaize...has serious low self esteem.. cry alot .and am severley depressed.all because ilost the weight and have now got big mounds of sagging skin mostly all over my body..under arms thighs..but the severe area is my stomach..yeah ilook fantastic in clothes..but when the clothes are off seriously i look as if i weigh 28 pounds more!!lol.i feel at such alow ebb.i dont know what to do with myself..the the worst part of all i did it sensibly and excercised throughout the whole process.i cant stand how this"loose skin" is making me feel and how its affecting me physcologically..is upsetting me severley.i just dont know what to do with myself.i feel ashamed of my body..i dispise it!!...to be honest i prefered my body when i was fat..at least iwas fat then!!!!!..everbody keeps saying "wow i bet you feel great" and i dont at all...i have had ababy and always been and up and down girl..but i just dont understand what when wrong ?? i excercised ate well.....and during the whole process i split my with partner of 10 yrs..so the losing weight bit was also.. akinda self discovery of finding myself and "My" identity again........i even have met someone else..whom i have booked aticket to go and see in nyc in amths time.which is another issue in itself..as we talk across yahoo messenger and cam ..and hes like "what are you talking about" yr as skinny as anything..and thats the trouble in clothes i do look slim as u like..butim a size 10..yet have to wera 16-18 knickers as they dig in my stomach...and no.I., not one of these women who have the tiniest bit of fat and is making abig deal out of it.i have serious loose skin!!.now my arms and legs i can deal with, as i,m sure with some severe weight liftin this can im sure be toned.but the stomach.i dont hold out any hope.as there just too much........the thing ismy relationship is getting on a pretty serious level..with this man now....and i,m so soooo frightened..about how he we feel and think about me once hes sees this stomach im sure he will be discusted!...( hes very toned n sleek)..and ive tired to tell him how it is...hes says hes not after asupermodel..and just wants alovely girl..and likes my head and what i consist of..and said that as long as he can get his arms around me for acuddle he really doesnt care!......the thing is.i,m at such alow ebb right now and so frightened of recjection because of my body.............i,m really frightened this is going to tip me over the edge!!....i do think ineed some sort of help.but dont know where to turn or who too.......despite this though.i,m an attractive girl.and i really have tried to focus on my postitive parts but....my heads isnt having any of it.i just dont know what to do!! any suggestions or help or ideas..or anyone who has felt similar let me know.many thanks.......xxxxxx