Hey everyone, I'm Daisy.

I don't think the message she was trying to convey had any judgements against being pretty or thin. I think it had more to do with using sexual attraction, treating yourself like an object, or women dumming themselves down to get attention or sell records.

There seems to be a huge departure in recent times from women in Hollywood portraying themselves as intelligent, empowered beings. I am simultaneously fascinated and repulsed by the sexual acting out I see by the young actresses, musicians, and famous people in general.

It's not that I'm a prude, I'm not. I just think there's a difference between sexual empowerment and acting out. Why do women feel the need to identify themselves as solely sexual beings? Do we need attention that badly? And is that the kind of attention we truly need? What about being valued for intelligence, strength, savvy, etc.? If someone is looking at your tits, they're not noticing much else about you.

I was a stripper for 10 years. Everything I did was about sex and sexuality. It's how I related to the world. At 40, I'm not so sexually attractive as I used to be, nor do I want to be. It gets in the way of people taking me seriously, and frankly, I'm trying to find out who I am. I lost alot of time by being so focused on attracting attention for how I looked. I'm trying to accept myself the way I am, for who I am now, and it's really hard. I just think the sooner a girl is willing to look at who she is, the sooner she will know who that is and be ok with it. Then maybe it won't matter how big her tits are or how many wrinkles she has.